I have gotten much more lenient with ships to be honest-- I used to be die hard about them, but really it's whatever works and there are a few pairings that I can mix and match. I used to ship Yuri/Raven and that was like sole pairing-- but then me and my ex girlfriend broke up (that was our favorite ship) and I just sort of drew away from it, so now I ship Yuri with anyone BUT Raven